touchesBegan please help!

so I am trying to make my own game and I want to when you die it loads back up the main home screen so they can click play/ options and what not, but I am having trouble getting the touches began to touch the node I want to touch, as for example I want to click play to play I can’t get the touch to register that I am clicking the play button?

can someone please help and tut me through the code, or drop some code for me please